Advise From An Older Man
A 92-year old, petite, well poised and proud man, who is fully dressed each morning by eight o’clock, having shaved perfectly and with his hair fashionably coiffed, even though he is legally blind, moved to a nursing home today. His wife of 70 years passed away, making the move necessary.
After hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, he smiled sweetly when told his room was ready. As he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, he was given a visual description of his tiny room, including the eyelet curtains that had been hung on his window.
“I love it”, he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having just been presented with a new puppy. Mr. Jones, you haven’t seen the room; just wait, he was told.
“That doesn’t have anything to do with it”, he replied. “Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my room or not doesn’t depend on how the furniture is arranged…..it’s how I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it. It is a decision I make every morning when I wake up. I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed and be thankful for the ones that do. Each day is a gift and as long as my eyes open, I’ll focus on the new day and all the happy memories I’ve stored away, just for this time in my life. Old age is like a bank account, you withdraw from what you’ve put in.”
His advice would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank account of memories!
I would like to thank you for your part in filling up my memory bank………..as I am still depositing.
Let’s remember together the ‘ Five simple rules to be happy‘:
Free your heart from hatred.
Free your mind from worries.